11.01.2011

"I AM THANKFUL" 30 Day Thanksgiving Challenge!

I don't know about you guys, but October - December are BY FAR my favorite months of the year!

I can't just choose one of these months, especially now that I'm a Mother, because each of these months has so many events to share traditions (old and new) with my Daughter! It's like I'm reliving my childhood again and who better to share it with than her?! She's exactly 18 months today and is already very receptive to changes happening around our household as I prepare for our Thanksgiving celebration with my Parents! :-)

To make this month a little more special for me, I've decided to do...


...the "I AM THANKFUL 30 Day Thanksgiving Challenge"!! Last year, my friend Meghan came up with with this challenge by posting a picture a day of something she was thankful for on her Facebook page. But this year it will be on her blog Shine On...tales of a twenty-something!! It think this is such an incredible idea. I can only speak for myself, but being a SAHM, running a sewing business out of our home, keeping up with our household and running the apartment complex with live at, definitely makes me SO busy that I'm quick complain about how tired I am, or how we barely have any money to pay bills, never have money to buy things we want or go out and do the fun things everyone else is doing, etc but I never take the time to slow down and be thankful for what we DO have! This month is going to be A-MAZING!

So here goes.....

Day #1

I am thankful...for the roof I have over my head!


Although it's not a $200,000+ house and isn't the "nicest" apartment out there, I'm absolutely thankful that we have a warm place to live!

Now it's YOUR TURN! I DARE YOU! ;-) Hop on the "30 Days of Thanks Challenge" with me and share what you're thankful for! Post a link to your blog, page, social networking site under this post. I'd love to see what you all are thankful for!! :-)  

10.31.2011

{HAPPY HALLOWEEN} - A 1st Trick or Treating Experience

HAPPY HALLOWEEN from my family to all of you!! Hope you all stay safe out there during your Tricking and Treating ;-)

Our daughter was a fairy or a ballerina...but since she wouldn't let go of the wooden spoon I gave her to play with while we waited for Daddy to get home, I was going to rap it up in ribbon to create a wand for her...it failed miserably because, like I said, she REFUSED to let go of it hahaha. My friend Kayla came up with brilliant idea of calling her a "Kitchen Fairy" and that exactly what she was ;-) 


This was Miss K's first time Trick or Treating...and it was SO much fun (mostly for us parents, she had no idea what was going on!) She did try to sprint into a couple houses but good thing everyone thought she was so cute because they didn't mind that she tried haha!

I know what you're thinking...but NO, she will not be eating any of this candy...that's her Daddy's job ;-)

10.05.2011

Holy AWESOME-NESS!

HI! Remember me?! Haha! I feel like I've been SO busy these days that I don't even remember who I am.

Hope you all are doing amazing! Things have sure been fun and crazy around this household. Went on a family camping trip a couple weekends ago (my daughter's first time at a beach) and it was a complete success! Miss K had a BLAST eating all the sand she could get her hands on, as well as throwing it at unsuspecting victims that came near her, my hubby and I were able to have a little break from being parents thanks to my In laws! Even though it was a bit wet and rainy most of the trip, the memories we left with were priceless and made it all worth it. That trip was probably the last time my husband's family will be completely together again for a while. he's one of 4 brothers and with us and another brother living where we are, makes family get together's a little more difficult. One of my brother in laws enlisted into the Army, to become a Ranger, and left for Basic Training down in Georgia today. It's definitely bittersweet to think that it might be YEARS before we see him again (unless we can cross paths around Xmas or his leave). We couldn't be more proud of what he's doing for our country and we just can't wait to see him grow and accomplish so much. I have dreams that we'll barely recognize him the next time we see him haha. One of the biggest things I think about often is how he is one of Miss K's favorite people in the world and I just hope that she remembers who he is even though she's still pretty young. We plan on showing her pictures of him daily and talk about him often so he doesn't become a "stranger" to her but I have "nightmares" that when she sees him again she treats him like one. I can only hope for the best because if I start doing the "what ifs" I'll make myself crazy! Constant prayers for his safety would very GREATLY appreciated! :-)

As far as the whole weight loss thing...I hit my first bump in the road...and I anticipated it. I know that sounds awful but I expected to gain a pound or two during our camping trip but to my disappointment I gained 4 lbs back :-( THANKFULLY, I got my butt back in gear once we got back and lost 2 of those pounds again in a week haha. So, I'm standing at 15 lbs lost at the moment. Still not bad at all ;-) I'm completely on track with losing a pound a week, even with that gain and that makes me happy! I'm just very anxious to lose a couple more pounds to get my running shoes!! I want to start training for Bloomsday SO bad but the shoes I have would end up doing damage to me in the long run so they're worth the wait :-)

As if I didn't have enough things to keep me busy...a good gal pal of mine starting putting the bug in my ear about couponing (which has been on my mind for almost a year now) and possibly giving it a try. I'll admit...I thought about getting really into couponing but I just didn't know where to start and every time I tried to read about it, I would get completely overwhelmed by all the information and how to use coupons "correctly" to get all the amazing deals that I was seeing people talk about all over the Internet. Since my friend offered to help me get my feet wet, show me the ropes, teach me the lingo and take me on a shopping trip to see couponing in action....I couldn't pass up the opportunity. She had me clip a few coupons of things I saw that I was interested in buying, showed me this website called FabuLESSly Frugal (BEST couponing site EVER!), where a group of women dedicate what little spare time they have to put this site together for people like me to help us understand how to couponing works. They really "dumb" it down and make it easy to learn! I was SO impressed by this site that I thought it was too good to be true! And the best part...IT'S FREE!!! These woman really lay it out for you. They tell you which coupons are available, where to find them, where the best deals are, how to use the coupons to maximize your savings, and how you can find MORE!

After I printed my coupons, bought some newspapers, clipped more coupons, we headed out the door to Albertson's Sunday. Just an FYI, Albertson's has these coupons they offer around every couple weeks in the Sunday paper called "Twice The Value" coupons, they double the value of any manufacturer's coupon that's a $1.00 or less...coolest things ever! So, back to my story haha. I wanted to start SMALL because I didn't want to stress myself out or bite off more than I could chew so the only thing I had on my shopping list was (based on the sales and coupons available) chips, dip and soup. I learned very quickly that there is definitely a "science" behind couponing and that if one thing doesn't line up, or if there are items unavailable, it can throw off the entire trip and the savings that are possible. We arrived at Albertson's and of course, the Progresso soup we wanted, was out of stock :-( Someone must have been on our side because they has a large flat hidden at the back at the store at the end of an aisle that was PACKED with the ProgressoHAHA! My friend got through her transactions and it was my turn. I had 4 back of Tostitos tortilla chips, 2 Tostitos dips and 8 cans of Progress soup. After discounted prices and scanned coupons, I walked away only spending $12.96 for ALL of that! The chips and dip alone, full price, came to almost twice what I paid, and that isn't including the full price for the 8 cans of soup!!! I only paid .50 cents PER CAN of Progresso! And well...here is a picture of my receipts...I'll let the numbers do the rest of the talking...(click on the picture to make it larger)


 Needless to say, I WAS HOOKED! This experience definitely made me feel confident to start trying this on my own and really start to get into it! As soon as I got home, I told my hubby about my experience and showed him all the goodies....let's just say that he also became pumped about the idea of couponing and wanted to get involved in it with me! We made our shopping lists, got our coupons organized and ready (WAY more coupons than my first trip) and headed out again on Tuesday to see how we'd end up. After visiting two different stores, using up all our coupons (even purchasing big ticket items), this is what we ended up at...

Spent $87.99 on $177.67 worth of groceries which came out to be around 51% savings, we bought 54 items and spent an average of $1.63 per item! :-) I'm sure there were situations where we could have saved more, but with this being our first trip, doing it all on our own, we were pretty damn excited!!! Here were just a couple deals we came across...

For these 6 bottles of shampoo, that are normally regularly priced around $4.99 per bottle...


...we only spent $1.93 PER BOTTLE! When we originally set out to get these, we were only suppose to get them for $1.19 per bottle, but the morning we arrived at Albertson's, they were no longer accepting the coupon combination that would have made them that cheap. STILL A STEAL at $1.93 for the size of the bottles and the number we bought! ;-) Won't need to get shampoo for a while :-)

A HUGE, surprise deal that we came across what Tide laundry detergent...the 100oz jugs pictured below, for this specific size and brand, run about $12-15 PER JUG...


We found them in the clearance carts at Safeway, they were originally $14.99 and they'd been marked down at 50% off which made them $7.49 each and then we had 2 coupons for a dollar of each of them...we walked about only paying $6.49 for each of these :-) I mean, sure, we could have gotten an off brand that's normally close to what we paid on a regular basis, but for us to be able to get Tide for that price...WINNING! :-)

It's definitely going to take us more time to get stuff for free or around pennies but we're excited just to be doing it! Oh, and my friend Kat that I went with on Sunday, she got 10 boxes of cereal for around .38-.88 cents a piece ;-)

This is what our cupboards look like right now...


LOVE IT!

Do any of you guys coupon? If so, I'd love to hear your experiences or stories!

I think I'll end this post here lol...HAPPY HUMP DAY!

Much Love,

Caty

9.16.2011

Can it be?!?

Can it really be, that I only have 3lbs left to lose to make it to my 2nd milestone - LOSING 20LBS?!?!? 


I stepped on the scale this morning and was in COMPLETE shock....

i've lost 17lbs in 9 weeks.


As far as I can remember, this is the most weight I've ever lost "dieting". 


I feel SO great, refreshed, energized, that I can take on this whole world of weight loss by storm. 


Me, Caty, has lost 17lbs. I cried laughed squealed at the number staring back at me this morning. HAHA! For the first time in my life I've taken charge of weight loss in a way that doesn't discourage me at times, I never even feel like I'm "dieting" because I've completely changed my lifestyle and what I do now just seems like it's suppose to be "normal". 


What's even crazier...is when I think about my weight loss like this...


i only have 35lbs left to lose! 


I started at a goal to lose 52lbs and I'm almost HALF WAY THERE! I think I'm even more excited that when I lose the next 3lbs, I get to invest in a great pair of running shoes and start training for Bloomsday!!!! I've NEVER, EVER ran "for fun". I never even ran in high school during PE when I was 140lbs and had to pass the class by running a mile in a certain amount of time...I ALWAYS walked it ;-) 


I found this GREAT website through my friend Janeen (THANKS AGAIN GIRL!), called From Couch to 5K. The program looks SO "friendly" to non-runners, almost like anyone can do it if they try, and that makes me BEYOND excited to run...me...excited to RUN....what the hell is going on with the universe when I'm sitting here saying I can't wait to run?!?! LOL! I've NEVER been that girl and can I just tell you....I CANNOT WAIT to BE that girl!! :-) The program is set up to have anyone running a 5K in 10 weeks. This site also gave me tools into finding out which running shoes will be best for me because I know NOTHING about what it takes to find good running shoes. 


Well...enough of my blabbing! I hope you all are doing amazing and I sincerely thank you for reading my blog and seeing how I'm doing!! Your support means SO much to me! :-)

LOVE TONS! :-)

8.26.2011

"Sleep. Socks. Stay. Sexy. Shart." - The Imagination of Jenny Lynne

I'm just coming across some GREAT stuff this week having to do with marriages/relationships! I've come to "meet" Jenny through a mutual friend of ours and ever since I've discovered her blog, I've found myself WAITING for her newest blog entries to be posted!

She's insightful, whitty, pure hearted, makes you laugh at yourself, and she's......HONEST! She wears her thoughts, emotions, feelings on her sleeve and it's SO refreshing when she holds nothing back. Even on the touchiest subjects she's right there talking about them.

So, once again, if your married, engaged, dating...READ THIS! You'll laugh, you'll have "ah ha" moments and find yourself saying "that has happened to me too"! ;-)

The Imagination of Jenny Lynne: Sleep. Socks. Stay. Sexy. Shart.

A big thank you to Jenny for taking the time to share her thoughts and write them down for all of us to read!! :-)

Enjoy!

8.24.2011

"IF ONLY"

Hello All! :-)

Saw this link posted on my friend's Facebook page and it is a MUST share! I think anyone who is married or engaged, even if none of the things mentioned apply to you or your spouse, you should take the time to read this, it's short and sweet and very much to the point.

"There are so many things that your marriage can survive. You marriage can survive miscommunication. Your marriage can survive busy schedules. Your marriage can overcome conflict with your in-laws. Your marriage can get through sexual brokenness and unforgiveness. But, there are two words that will eventually bring an end to your marriage…if not legally then definitely emotionally.

The two words are…

…IF ONLY…

If only my wife had sex with me more often
If only my husband looked at me like my boss does
If only we had kids
If only we made more money
If only we lived in a bigger house
If only we would have dated longer
If only she took care of herself like the lady at the gym
If only my high school boyfriend and I would have stayed together
If only we hadn’t had kids so young
If only she understood me
If only he listened to me
If only I knew we were soul mates
If only she cooked more or better
If only he could do things around the house

If only causes you to focus on what isn’t rather than on what is. If only allows your mind to fantasize about someone that isn’t your spouse. If only believes the grass is greener on the other side of the fence. If only paralyzes us in the pursuit of our spouse and convinces us that a perfect marriage is competently up to the other person. If only will slowly destroy intimacy and leave you in a place of resentment. If only will trick you into believing that the best days of your marriage are behind you and and not ahead of you.

The best thing you can do for your marriage today is remove “if only” from your mind and heart.

You can’t change the past, but you can prevent the past from destroying your future.

Do you struggle with the thought of “if only”?"


To go to the blog of the couple that wrote this post...here is the direct link to the post I just shared...

http://refineus.org/2011/08/2-words/

I'd have to say that I completely agree with this post. Not only can a marriage not tolerate those two words for too long, but individuals alone will eventually begin to fall apart constantly thinking "if only I'd done this or if only I'd done that". I'm often saddened by listening to people (including MYSELF) constantly think about the what ifs and the if onlys instead of focusing on what they have right in front of them. Thankfully, I've become a lot better with doing that to myself. When I was younger, especially in high school, "what if" and "if only" seemed to be making an appearance in vocabulary often, as well as a couple years into my college years, before I started to shape up and realize that I was deserving of everything that I had and that everything happened to me for a reason. I still believe that to my core today. I hope that everyone can see the good in everything that they have right in front of them. I honestly feel that life would be SO boring if we had everything we ever wanted...then was is there to work for?! ;-) I kind of strayed a little off topic, lol, sometimes I just can't help it ;-)

What are your thoughts on this? Please feel free to share! :-) This is a NO JUDGEMENT environment, so please respect that others have different thoughts and opinions to share.

THANKS YOU GUYS! :-) Looking forward to hearing what all your thoughts are :-)

8.12.2011

Week 4 - CHECK, 10lbs lost - CHECK!

I. freakin. DID IT!!!!

Weighed in today and....BAM! The number looking back at me on the scale was 194.6lbs...I LOST 10LBS (in 4 weeks)!! I can't believe I've already hit my first bench mark in my weight loss journey!

I can't even begin to explain what I'm feeling and thinking....so much to the point where I'm speechless and this may be the shortest post I ever write! LOL! However, I get to go reward myself with a pedicure today!! :-)

I hope you all are doing amazing with your journey!